Well I finally got Opera, TCPMP, and Flash working correctly!  The trick is editing the opera.ini file to associate the appropriate mime types with TCPMP and the Flash player.

Remember to configure TCPMP to be associated with all files and set it to process with Intel XScale! 

I am using Opera 8.65b Beta for Smartphones, TCPMP 0.72RC1, and Flash Lite 2.1. 

Download everything from my Motorola Q section and change the pathnames to match your program paths in your \Application Data\Opera\opera.ini file!

Click "Read More..." below to see the [File Types] section of my opera.ini .. 

[Cache]
Set File Writer Thread Priority=0           (this stop lockups)

[File Types Extension]
application/mheg=,0
application/rstl=,0
application/sdp=,0
application/x-shockwave-flash=,0
application/futuresplash=,0

[File Types]
application/sdp=3,\Program Files\TCPMP\player.exe,,,sdp,|
application/mheg=3,\Program Files\TCPMP\player.exe,,,mheg,|
application/rstl=3,\Program Files\TCPMP\player.exe,,,rstl,|
audio/x-ms-wax=3,\Program Files\TCPMP\player.exe,,,wma,|
audio/x-mpegurl=3,\Program Files\TCPMP\player.exe,,,m3u,|
audio/x-scpls=3,\Program Files\TCPMP\player.exe,,,pls,|
video/x-ms-asf=3,\Program Files\TCPMP\player.exe,,,asf,asx,|
video/x-ms-wvx=3,\Program Files\TCPMP\player.exe,,,wvx,|
video/x-mpegurl=3,\Program Files\TCPMP\player.exe,,,m3u,m4u|
video/x-flv=3,\Program Files\TCPMP\player.exe,,,flv,|
application/x-shockwave-flash=3,\Program Files\Adobe\FlashLite\saplaywm.exe,,,swf,|
application/futuresplash=3,\Program Files\Adobe\FlashLite\saplaywm.exe,,,spl,|